婷婷又回上海了，MSN上一看到她就开心，刚说上几句话，嫌打字太烦,就索性奔出来一道中饭了。

 

果然非常了解我的喜好,婷婷带我去了一家法式Pizza店,是在大沽路上的"La Boite A Pizza".一进门就是满眼的红.餐桌,餐椅,纸巾盒,墙壁都是红色。好个法兰红,比在AF还要多，但并不觉得聒噪,反而很舒服.婷婷一见到我就说我瘦了，其实我才没有呢，和婷婷在一起，我可不敢说自己瘦.西西.然后我们点了份双人套餐,选了一个12寸的美味夏威夷皮萨,芝士薯角,一份南瓜汤和沙拉,然后婷婷又点了一个叫卡罗纳的特色馅饼和2份巧克力蛋糕，裾婷婷说可是非常美味的哦。这里的生意还不错，旁边的桌子有几个法国人正在用餐,小小的餐厅里流淌着欢快活泼的法国香颂.感觉真是轻松啊。可惜婷婷这个大忙人,一顿饭的时间起身接了7,8个电话,真是没有办法，她的生活象一个五彩斑斓的万花筒.丰富又充满了各种各样的可能.每一次和她聊天都总是会有新的消息，新的想法和新的计划。如果说我的生活是一条缓缓流动的河水，那她的生活就应该是一汪急流澎湃的江流,充满了无数的分支,汇流,却又始终无畏的前行着.

 

我们很十三的把吃的东西都拍了照片,以文字和照片记录下这快乐的时光.然后又互吐苦水和最近遭受的委屈和辛苦。虽然生活里有许多的遗憾和不美好，有那么多总是要伤害我们的人在身边,试图扰乱我们的方寸，破坏我们的生活.但是有朋友的陪伴，就总是觉得很有力量.不再去理会那些会让我们不愉悦的事情。在这样复杂的混乱的世界里，坚守一颗平和的心, 用积极的心态去梳理出明晰的未来。

 

因为,身边的一切因素都是一直在改变着的，我们身边的或好或坏的事情都不足以对我们的生活产生实质性的改变，重要的是,我们本身是怎样的人,采取着什么样的态度去面对这些发生在我们身上的事情。从而带来了一种新的结果和连续的反应，无论是主动还是被动，你都在对自己的人生做出一个个选择,这些延续的效应影响着并形成了我们持续的生活中的各个部分，串联起来就构成了一个过去和未来。所以说，一个人最终是贫困或是富有.那是因为他/她想成为这样的人.而并不是身边的社会或世界或所谓的命运给了他/她这样的生活。

 

所以，婷婷要开心快乐，因为前面还有更好的人在等你呢!

 

PS:其实,这个贫困或富有的结果并不是真的那么重要，因为人不可复制的，独有的个性是每个人存在感和值得自豪的来源。各人的追求和喜好不同，自然不能以单一的标准去衡量判断世俗世界所谓的"成功"和"失败"。坚守个性，是唯一的方向所在.

 what will last long? nothing!

 

so If "nothing"could last long.then what is nothing? 

Perhaps Love这首歌很棒.去年在Eliane Paige的concert 是压轴曲目,有宏大的配乐和听众的合唱,.但我最喜欢的还是菲律宾女歌手Jheena Lodwick翻唱的版本,由此又喜欢上她翻唱的很多其他歌曲,象<Imagine>,<Song Sung blue>,<Tears in heaven>,<I will always love you>,<Its now or never>,<All my loving><Are you lonesome tonight>她的声音很美.perhaps love是我最喜欢的。歌词也很好...

 

Perhaps love is like a resting place
A shelter from the storm
It exists to give you comfort
It is there to keep you warm
And in those times of trouble
When you are most alone
The memory of love will bring you home

Perhaps love is like a window
Perhaps an open door
It invites you to come closer
It wants to show you more
And even if you lose yourself
And don't know what to do
The memory of love will see you through

Oh, love to some is like a cloud
To some as strong as steel
For some a way of living
For some a way to feel
And some say love is holding on
And some say letting go
And some say love is everything
And some say they don't know
Perhaps love is like the ocean
Full of conflict, full of change
Like a fire when it's cold outside
Or thunder when it rains

If I should live forever
And all my dreams come true
My memories of love will be of you

And some say love is holding on
And some say letting go
And some say love is everything
And some say they don't know
Perhaps love is like the ocean
Full of conflict, full of change
Like a fire when it's cold outside
Or thunder when it rains

If I should live forever
And all my dreams come true
My memories of love will be of you

I've watched 3 movies today.One of them really touched me deeply. the name of the movie is conversation with god.I think some of the sentences are quite meaningful.so here i took notes from it----

 

 

The truth has been echoed,Love is the answer.You have projected the role of parent onto god.and have thus come up with a god who judges & rewards or punishes.You have created a fear based reality around love.and this fear based love reality dominates your experience of love.indeed.it actually created it.

Is it fear that you need in order to be.do and have.what is intrinsically right?Must you be threatened in order to be good?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That's very simple & basic truth actually.people just always egnore it.for chasing those lots of so-called 'worldly success'.what would we got except others aprobation.is that really important to us rather than what we really like to do?so stupid & meaningless.

 

be practically living in the moment of 'now'. when you care much.you lose more.let it go.All the loss with be back one day.with a different way.